Had I known: What are you really looking for?

Did you really need a long lasting relationship after marriage?
Did you need somebody that can really be your partner and that can stand by or with you in times of trials and persecutions?
In fact, how did you feel marriage to be?

Is it just that you need a companion that can stand with you come rain or shine or you really want to satisfy or gratify your sexual desires?

Please, you really need to know what you want before you jump into any man or woman because there is always POST LIFE AFTER THAT SATURDAY MARRIAGE.

You are welcome to a new world of relating and coping with somebody of different race or belief systems etc. How are you going to stand?

What is prompting you towards that girl or guy? Is it real and true love or material things i.e what you can gain that will definitely fade away.

Why did you go for that guy or lady?

Answers to all these questions will determine whether your marriage will stand or fall.

You need to answer all these questions before you continue that relationship or choose anybody.

Some in marriage are suffering but marriage is not designed for that but for fulfillment and happiness.

Answers to all these questions will be known to you in less than 2 and half years of your marriage and it may be too late for you to consider then so THINK NOW

Life is a choice. You chose that person and you must live with him/her with all that he/ she carries both negative and positive,

So look before you leap. There must be no comments from you after your choice.

In choosing your partner, the most important thing is this " CONSIDER YOUR FUTURE". I mean which kind of person did you want to be in future and is a must that you must not choose the person that does not want to live that kind of life.

Did you want to be a winner or a loser, a punching bag, lonely, married to a drunker, womanizer, prostitutes etc.

In fact, marriage is marrying yourself. Same kind of person that you are.

In physics, they say likes repel but opposites attract but in marriage, this is not so i tell you because in marriage likes attract but opposites repel.

Don’t be rule by money or security, See, in actual fact there is nothing like security or whatever but there is all like pure love towards your partner.
With love, couples can transform themselves in to what they are now into what they want to be. It is just a matter of time

How many rich people that we have in our society that are not contended. I tell you contentment is not in volume whether small or big but in heart and altitude.

IT IS THE MATTER OF THE HEART.

There is this saying, "look before you leap". Dont allow anybody to decieve you with sweet words and unrealistic promises. Had I known is the language of the fools

My advice is simply this, consider your future.

This may sound uncommon in our present day life in choosing your partner, it should not be based strongly on the kind of job, educational levels, family background etc. but in inmate abilities, character, kindness, courtesy, love etc. These are things we don’t see but exist.

For the things that we see are temporal but the things that we don’t see are eternal.

The fool considers now but the wise thinks of the future.

Are you really looking for happiness, peace or disaster? It is up to you to get what you want based on your choice

But I tell you that the subject of marriage is so important that you can not leave to chance because who you marry has a way of influencing your life for better or for worse

Some are crying inside. They can’t tell, why must you join the list.

Are you planning to marry somebody that will be cheating on you? This can be averted.

Life is a teacher. You don’t have to look too far. Study people around you, you will really have a lot to learn. The seeing eyes and hearing ears are made by God.

See, if the guy is really in love with you, He will not be demanding for your body before marriage. He may want to use you and dump you.

If he really loves you, he will wait for you, he that believes shall not make haste and remember that loves does not hurt.

Most guys have it at the back of their minds never to marry somebody they have tasted and toasted with before marriage
Why can’t you use your body as a tool of respect for guys? The weak wants it now but the strong is always patient. Why are you selling yourself so cheap?

You currently worth more in the future than you presently worth now. No matter what is happening to a girl, it should never be an excuse to sell or trade your body for anything.

Whatever is not right is definitely wrong. There is more to life than money.

Never let your age intimidate you to rush and choose a wrong partner. Now, everything that will last need time and must be tested. In a while you will know the sheep from the goat.

It is better to be slow and be steady than to be fast and be finished. Why must you sell your birthright for a morsel of meal?

My message is this, in choosing your partner and before saying yes to anybody THINK OF THE FUTURE. Leave the present. Never use your peers as yardstick into getting into relationship. You have to be very potent on your own.

Studies show that couples live longer than singles because they gratify each other and that men respect women that have means

Let your thought dwell on the future because their are many years to spend after that Saturday wedding day.

You decide for yourself. Did I want to end up in divorce, lonely, uncared for, if not, watch your steps with the guy or gal.

Time has a power of revealing the truth.

He that beleives shall not make haste

I don’t care will lead you to had I known

The easiest way for you to die young is to live with somebody you don’t like everyday

A word is enough for the wise. Look before you leap because not all that glitters are gold. Good luck.